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Failed surgical abortion mumsnet I took misoprostol 3 doses but I didn't bleed yet it has been two days ,does it mean that it was unsuccessful I had two abortions due to failed birth control. I just wanted to post about the positive experience I had with a surgical abortion at 11 weeks with the NHS. Get well soon I have an appointment booked with the hospital next week for the pre-assessment and the 1st appointment to prepare for the surgical abortion. I went ahead with a surgical procedure at the beginning of I had a surgical abortion yesterday at 8+2. There were about 5-6 other girls there at this point. I tried to request a surgical rather than medical abortion in Glasgow at 10 weeks and was told it was medical only to 18 weeks and the leaflet said if you needed a later abortion than this you would be referred to a Trust in England. I was given misoprostal, but had Medical abortion at 5 weeks The doctor told me it was a few millimetres. After the procedure I was fine. The health advisor was lovely I had opted for a surgical abortion under general anaesthetic . My hcg has gone down alot but I have not took a test recently. Luckily, The risk of complications increases the later in pregnancy an abortion is carried out. I've had to do a pregnancy test today to see if it was successful. One line is really strong and there is another faint line and now I'm worried it hasn't worked! Scared - Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 155 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 10:16 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. I just confuses me what came out of me then if the I contacted them with an online form and received a phonecall back the next day. I have had a scan at 12 weeks and the specialist raised enough concern as she couldn't determine the feet and right hand how she wanted to. (She said she personally will scan me after to double check its in the so I wanted to share my experience today I had a surgical abortion under conscious sedation and I also had local anesthetic I was 10 weeks , I went to bpas for my abortion and it I don't think I can mentally go through with an abortion BUT I also cannot imagine having another baby! Both pregnancies were hard - I was really unwell with sickness. Even though I deeply regret having them, both times the process was straight forward. I wrote down my reasons and went back to it when I A surgical abortion may be possible – please discuss this with the doctor if you wish to consider it. We I had a medical abortion 4 weeks ago which I found out today has failed. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing anyway sorry to hear this isn’t going to plan for you. Took first pill 18/03 and then two lots on 19/03. A friend of mine went through with a pregnancy after a failed abortion. My daughter is 6 months old and the fath Hi I don't think I've ever added a thread, but I did search the archives when I was making my decision, so thought I'd add my experience to help anyon I don't think I can mentally go through with an abortion BUT I also cannot imagine having another baby! Both pregnancies were hard - I was really unwell with sickness. The fact you're There are many women in your position who have had a failed abortion. Take it from me, it's much much better to know for sure It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. At that point I’d have been 5 & 1/2 to 6 weeks. Even though I deeply Hello I’ve chosen to go ahead with an abortion , this is not the right time for me to have another child . Without going into masses of detail I have health complications and another Welcome to r/abortion!We work hard to keep this a supportive community. Having an abortion will not affect your chances of becoming pregnant and having There are people who say if you are not sure about having a kid - don't do it; and then also there are ones who said if you are unsure about having an abortion - don't do it. But I really regretted it and I feel I can’t make my mind up to continue or not for reasons due to abnormalities. I was at a Marie Stopes and the worst thing was that they had a cooking program on in the waiting room and I Thank you for this post, I’ve found out I’m unexpectedly pregnant I currently have an 8 month old and I’m suffering from ppd. Thank you so much for your kind words. Join Mumsnet Hi @sarahb19 I had a surgical abortion a week ago today. Good evening, Today found out I'm pregnant, thinking it's about 3-4 weeks. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention. she drove me 300+ miles to have it done as I refused to have a surgical because I wanted to spend time with him and say goodbye. I had a surgical termination at 12/13 weeks. Ended up having the surgery and I felt nothing. You wanted an abortion because you knew you weren't ready, nothings changed in that respect. I know how unlikely it is for abortion to fail but There are a couple of things making me wonder if it actually worked. She says My doctor said it was a surgical abortion. 7 I had an early surgical abortion on Saturday with LA and it went well. (She said she personally will scan me after to double check its in the I currently have 11mm retained tissue was left after surgery for miscarriage on September 6. Women whose last induced abortion occurred 12-24 months before the current pregnancy with no pregnancy in between the induced abortion and the current pregnancy faced an increased risk of miscarriage (odds ratio = 2. On the morning of my procedure, I arrived at the clinic at 9am. I had an abortion 5th jan 2022 surgical, an now the grieve is getting worse the baby would have being due in 3weeks and I can’t help but feel sick to think of what I done I’m devastated, I’m in a loving relationship with 2 kids an at the time I was panicking because my last child was only 14months when had abortion an we as a couple just I hope you're good today. Thought it was period then the bleeding stopped. (but sorry you are in Hi all, Was wondering if anyone else has had a failed medical abortion after taking - Mifepristone and Misoprostol in the same day?? I was 6 weeks 4 day when i had the After a surgical abortion the bleeding should only last 1-2 weeks or so. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. I had read horrible stories about medical abortions and I knew it wasn't for me. Join Mumsnet What a difficult situation. msi surgical abortion 11 replies rosekate203 · 20/06/2023 11:16 Hi all, Found out I was unexpectedly pregnant last week. I’m worried I can’t sleep but i’m overthinking as if they made a mistake Forty-six patients with unintentional continued pregnancy were detected among a series of 65,045 first trimester abortions. Following a failed medical abortion, I also had a I had to have an abortion 2 years ago, basically my son was only 6 months old but it come to light that he has some problems, and they thought they were genetic. I’m really struggling I must of only been a week and a half pregnant as I’m now 5. My medical abortion experience (one week ago). And shouldn’t drive for 48 hours actually. I The risk of complications increases the later in pregnancy an abortion is carried out. Is there a way to know if your abortion worked or not? Abortion is extremely effective. As others have said, if you do turn out to be pregnant & chose abortion Hi everyone, I am about to complete 8 weeks of pregnancy and have pregnancy abort due to no yolk sac seen at 7 week ultrasound. I had a medical abortion which was started on the roll at around 12 but br the time it got to doing it I was somewhere between there and 16 weeks. When I started feeling guilt and sadness over my abortion, I reminded myself why I had to make the choice to terminate. I have 2 young children and the day after I was able to go out as a family to see Father Christmas and the day after that I was caring for my 2 on my own as my husband was at work. To cut a long story short I agreed I would have an abortion as I know how hard it can be as a single parent. i had my daughter at Surgical abortion. But on Monday night I started getting sharp abdomen pains and have had them on and off since. It was not a decision I took lightly, and I have made peace with the decision I’ve made at this time in my life. I was 7 weeks. The staff were lovely, however, it was a horrible environment and it felt like cattle going in for a procedure. I was in pieces the weeks before the abortion, I was ashamed, Terrified and completely torn in my decision. This has never happened to me before and I recently had a baby (in January) so it was just really bad timing. It hurts to stand or sit in certain ways and I get an extreme spasm in the area at points. At the time of my abortion, telemedicine (pills-by-post) was an option for women up to 10weeks pregnant. Natural miscarriage hurt like Labour Chemical pregnancy . I think there's a faint line. I had an abortion recently (already have one DS 12mo) and am at college. I answered lots medical questions and discussed options. I was wondering if anyone else has had a failed abortion and gone on to have the baby? Well, it is a miscarriage. I had a medical abortion due to health issues. Women whose last induced abortion occurred 12-24 months I had a SA over four weeks ago. My story is similar to yours. Today I am I had a surgical abortion and everything went really smoothly. I sadly had to take tablets Today I had a surgical abortion with only local anaesthetic only at 6+4. I have an appointment tomorrow at the hospital for my scan etc and to talk through abortion @Tomorrowsabetterday. So i had surgery to remove it. Kim Langdon, an OB-GYN with the digital health platform Medzino. It hurts to stand or I had two abortions due to failed birth control. Abortion pills are also very effective at ending early pregnancies — you can use abortion pills for up to 77 days (11 weeks) after the first day of your last period. Also, HCG count has Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. I had a surgical abortion a month ago and have never felt so low and so suicidal in my entire life. They work 87-99 out of 100 times I had given birth, natural birth, to three kids and nothing compares to that pain, nothing at all. I’ve just been told that all the doctors available won’t perform the procedure due to religion. Can anyone advise how long to wait to get in for surgical abortion? Are the Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. I also started my adhd meds in the last 3 weeks and have been abit away with the fairy’s me and my boyfriend stupidly had sex using the pull out method after week 2 I can’t remember when exactly but I assumed all would be ok as I was still slightly bleeding! I thought I’d post in here after reading other people’s experiences with surgical abortions as they helped me loads with anxiety and information around surgical abortions. I honestly don’t know what to do. Please someone help me. The moderators can't stop people from sending you private it can be normal for the body to take a while to realise you are no longer pregnant and for your hormone levels to go back to normal, this is whether you have an abortion or For a termination that involves a surgical procedure, there’s a four in 1,000 chance of the womb being affected. The provider should provide you with lots of information. By the time I have that I will be 9 weeks and been waiting 5 weeks. X . I am still having the cravings for orange juice and mandarins that I had before. As others have said, if you do turn out to be pregnant & chose abortion A medical abortion involves taking medicines that end a pregnancy. @ApplesandBananas21 thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me. Failed abortion? Negative tests. Please don't judge! The description may be a little gruesome and graphic so look away now. I am in too much discomfort. Abortion failure - continued pregnancy hospital near me next week for an appointment to discuss my options as I was told moving forward I would have to have a surgical abortion, but I am feeling so confused now. I can't help on the practical side as I had a surgical abortion at a fairly similar time. You may get harassed by trolls via private message. I have been going back and forth about terminating She did all the work, rang my local clinic and booked me in! Nothing was left down to me other than collection which I was grateful for. Failed abortion 17 replies Colt300418 My second surgery showed no change. Warm baths, lavender spray, easy-to-digest/prepare food, a friend or I don't even know where to post this and I'm all so new. I conceived 3 weeks after my surgical abortion, 34 weeks now and no problems so far! I remember being afraid it would hurt my fertility but the nurse talked me through loads of Second trimester abortions were associated with an increased risk of first miscarriage (odds ratio = 4. My hormones were everywhere and I would find myself sobbing for what felt like For my medical abortion (age 19) I was in extreme pain with very heavy bleeding, eventually admitted to a&e and then passed everything the next night whilst on a ward. Bled very heavily 4 weeks after and had positive pregnancy test. I am writing this post to help anyone searching for honest experiences. Both were fine but quite different processes. But the problem with me was hyperemesis. Then I discove 4 weeks wait for surgical abortion 39 replies Meeko93 · 15/02/2022 13:39 Had my first appointment yesterday with bpas had to drive over 1hr 1/2 for them to only go through the form I did online. Before that, your only option is the medical ( pill ) option. Do not accept the pills by post system without a scan first. It is very effective — only about 1 in 1000 surgical abortions don't work and may need an additional procedure. The risks are different depending on whether you have a medical abortion or You can’t drive yourself home after a general anaesthetic. I went for a private scan yesterday and the fetus is growing with a very strong heartbeat and my bleeding has basically come to a holt. One line means termination successful two lines mean it's failed. Please please no judgement. And I’ve taken another digital today and it’s still 3+ I’m 4 weeks post abortion this I had an abortion at 7/8 weeks I didn't have any cramps at all and only light bleeding nothing compared to the stories I've read about it so after waiting the 2 weeks i took the pregnancy test given from the hospital it came back positive they got me up for an appointment the same day and done a scan which showed the baby was still there and I have had 4 miscarriages 1 live birth who is now 2, I don't want anymore but the pill had failed, so abortion is the only route to go down, I'm 11 weeks and only reason it's taken this long is I had a big bleed few weeks ago and thought I had miscarriaged, can you tell me your experiences of the surgery I'm planning on being awake Thank you, I just feel like they’re trying to make me get a surgical abortion as the pills failed but from my point of view they’ve failed for a reason. Then two days later Hi Everyone, I just wanted some advice and hoping some of you can ease my mind. Yes, medical first then surgical for the second (sometimes still can't quite believe I've been there twice). The risks are different depending on whether you have a medical abortion or 2) If I opt for surgical abortion to be 100% sure,will that leave any impact in my future fertility or pregnancy(we are intending to try and plan next year) Any one here had successful Hi guys, I'm currently 14+2. They discovered the mass was a cyst so left it and the slight bleeding/clots I had on Sunday morning was the termination. How normal is this? I had a surgical abortion and everything went really smoothly. If you have medical concerns, please consult a healthcare professional. I was 8/9 weeks when i had the abortion, i went for an appointment to discuss my options etc, and booked medical abortion. I started bleeding about 3 hours after quite heavily for a few hours but by early afternoon and all of today I’ve barely had to change a pad. Possible complications. All that is showing is a yolk sack no heart beat . The guilt I felt taking the tablets makes me worry how I will cope next week. I found out I'm pregnant today and works out I'm about 4 week and thinking about getting an abortion, I'm scared because I don't know what one is going to be Yes, medical first then surgical for the second (sometimes still can't quite believe I've been there twice). she drove me 300+ miles to have it done as I refused to have a surgical because I wanted to Condom split and morning after pill failed. Ok the day of the surgery there was one religious Not to scare you OP but I had a failed medical abortion that didn’t take effect for two weeks. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) @SEJ1789 thank you ️ I came to work yesterday (I work in a hospital) and spoke to the GP who transferred me to the gynaecologist with suspected ectopic, had a scan and there was a mass near my ovary so went for key hole surgery. I agree. So it's two weeks since I took my medical abortion pills. The fact you bled so heavily with big clots makes me think it’s very unlikely it didn’t work. I don’t know if it was the right thing to do but I booked s private scan last night and saw the baby today and everything is So I’ve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days I’ve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? Took the sensitive pregnancy test they provide 3 weeks post medical abortion it came up faint positive ; These are Amazon bought pregnancy tests I’ve taken today which are very strong. Went to the clinic Wednesday had my first tablet, took the second set 24 hours later nothing happened within 3 hours so took the 3rd I'm booked in for a surgical abortion in 10 days. I had a surgical abortion when I was 17. I filled in a form about my medical history then waited to be called. I have one DD who is 9 and I'm currently in a relationshi Lower back pain after surgical abortion 7 replies Excusemyfrench · 03/02/2019 09:48 I had the procedure on Wednesday. If you have the surgery you could say someone’s collecting you after or arrange a taxi? Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 7 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 09:52 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. Looking back though my pain threshold was not what it is now (been through labours now) and I just didn’t know what to expect. It’s a bit nerve racking because of the fear of failure, just have to wait to take the test. I was 8 weeks and due to a pre existing medical condition I was only allowed the surgical option under local anaesthetic. Although both procedures are safe, complications may occur and it is important to inform I had an abortion at 6 weeks several yea ago now. I've never had a general anaesthetic before, I laid on the bed Surgical abortion – this is a minor procedure to physically remove the pregnancy. Risks of a I had a surgical termination at 14 weeks after a failed medical (the pill one you take before 9 weeks). My life after them has been fine. in 2019, in a hospital that offers abortion services. Her circumstances were very different (failure of contraception after she slept with someone she knew, but not v well - he refused to have anything to do with her when she told him. I know of 2 other people who had a surgical termination in the past and both weren’t able I had two missed miscarriages with surgical treatment and I had a negative two weeks post surgery. If you've had more than one termination, it's possible that your cervix may have I called the clinic they put me in an appointment in 3 days. I had no pain and didn’t bleed much at all, I even worried for a couple of months that it hadn’t been done! I didn’t see the scan, they turned the screen away. I went to clinic today as I had a medical abortion at 8+4 and I was still testing positive. This in the U. I hope everything works out the way I've decided to write this post as the week waiting for my surgical I read many different experiences on the internet and was feeling very anxious for the procedure. There have sadly been many people who have become very unwell, and even a case of a woman who sadly died, due to taking the pills when being further along in pregnancy than they thought they were. I went for a medical abortion and took the tablets at just over 8 weeks. I’ve been in hospital one night and they said they would do the surgery on me this morning. However it has failed. Am now almost 12 weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical abortion on Monday. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis again in this pregnancy and knew i wouldnt be able to cope so i believe i made the right choice. They gave me one and a few days after the abortion (mine was surgical) I went to a quaint little forest and Just to add I had an abortion at 8 weeks got pregnant again and wanted to abort again for health. Hi Gina, I’m in a similar position. I already have other health problems including interstitial cystitis and inflammation of the bowel, amongst other things. I fell pregnant using contraception, my son is 2 and my daughter was 5 months when I fell pregnant and not long over 6 months when I had the abortion. The evening after and the Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. Medical abortion. Due to a medical condition I can’t have a medical abortion, only surgical. On the nhs site it states the risk for failed SA is 1 Second trimester abortions were associated with an increased risk of first miscarriage (odds ratio = 4. Pregnancy test still positive after 2 weeks. I figured I was pregnant 2 weeks after my period was due and honestly I thought my period was just late until I began getting signs of pregnancy. Please be kind to yourself. I also had a coerced abortion, and still, decades later, after bereavements and other difficult life events, it is definitely the most traumatic experience of I posted a while back on relationships about my situation. It is performed by a trained doctor. Thank you. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) I you go down the surgical route, you have to wait until you are atleast 7 or 8 weeks pregnant. The proper term for a m/c is spontaneous abortion, the only difference is that yours won't be spontaneous. I took the pills before 10 weeks and they Ive been booked in for a surgical abortion next Friday and to remove the coil and replace with a new one. I had a surgical abortion on Friday and had a regular period type bleed. Those of you who have gone through surgical awake, you're very brave and strong. That's where I had my consultation, scan and operation. Not through anything being wrong with the baby, just because you decided to end the pregnancy. 2 Is there anything I should do to prepare for my abortion? Before the so i have unfortunately had to have three abortions. At this visit, your health care The surgical abortion was done under general anaesthetic, a very light one and only took around 10-15 minutes. I’m a currently going through the process of a medical abortion. Medical abortion: what does it involve? Provided you're still in your first trimester and haven't So this isnt easy to talk about and I no doubt will get some grief which I expect. I 2. The % of failed medical abortions is tiny (something like 1 in 100) and they would usually have no/minimal bleeding. I was given misoprostal, but had I hate my unborn baby. My baby was 14-15 month old too. I had gone off with a man more than twice my age. I want to I opted for a termination with my 4th child as myself and my partner decided it was the best thing to do for our family. Hello. Signs of unsuccessful abortion To recognize the symptoms of missed abortion, women can rely on the following symptoms: Prolonged vaginal bleeding Usually after aspiration, women will have vaginal bleeding about 5 - 10 minutes. I'm also struggling to go to the toilet but can pass urine fine. There are 2 types of surgical abortion: Suction abortion: This is the most common method of abortion. I know how absolutely petrified I was and just hope this might put someone’s mind at ease a little bit. I I had an early surgical abortion on Saturday with LA and it went well. On my leaflet it said to take the test two weeks after taking the first pill which is what I've done. 63). I have had a scan at 12 @Kardelen I was 8 weeks and had a medical abortion. Took my first tablet yesterday morning and inserted the final 4 tablets today at 10am. Whereas with a surgical abortion once it's done it's all done. This was perhaps the hardest part of the process. Failing marriage ( relationship of 15 years ), three children, very unhappy. It's common to bleed for up to a week after a surgical abortion, according to Dr. Ive been booked in for a surgical abortion next Friday and to remove the coil and replace with a new one. I'm booked in for a surgical abortion under GA to You might have seen some of my previous posts I have had a failed surgical abortion. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 7 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 09:52 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. Just wanted to post and say I feel your frustration. What is a surgical abortion? A surgical abortion uses suction to remove the pregnancy tissue. Is it true I can’t get a surgical on the NHS in Scotland? I can’t afford to go private as I’ve found out it’s around £3000 🥺 I bled a week about 1 day of heavy and the rest was moderate to light/spotting. I am financially strapped. I was so so set on the procedure and from the moment I found out I just couldn’t fathom having Second trimester abortions were associated with an increased risk of first miscarriage (odds ratio = 4. He convinced me to go through with it, which in hindsight was absolutely the right decision but but did fuck with my head for a good few years. Heavy cramps kicked in around 25-30 minutes later and have eased slightly now I am using a hot water bottle. 23/07/2017 at 12:14 pm. Coil fitted during it etc. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Currently 10weeks pregnant and cannot mentally undergo a medical abortion. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Hi everyone thanks for your comments I have already been to the doctors I had a scan etc today which I think made me feel a lot more emotional about it but I know the best thing for me to have an abortion. Had a scan today and it shows the abortion failed, the baby is still alive! And I'm 13 weeks. The evening after and the I currently have 11mm retained tissue was left after surgery for miscarriage on September 6. K. So I went to my medical abortion appointment on the 5th July. ) and it was very difficult for her at the time, but she wouldn't have been without her son I had an abortion several years ago which was very painful, totally out of it, sweating, contractions, the lot. Unwanted pregnancies can be terminated by either medical or surgical methods. If a woman wants an early abortion (before I've had a natural miscarriage at 12 weeks, a chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks and a surgical miscarriage at 13 weeks. As for the mental side of things, about 2/3 days after the abortion I did feel extremely emotional. I was uncertain about whether to have my abortion, and so waited a few weeks, so I knew I was making the right decision for me. Read this if you're terrified. Some minimal pain which was managed with painkillers and I recovered quickly from the GA. 28). The mifepristone and misoprostol regimen can be used up through 12 weeks for an at-home abortion. Ramping and bleeding for up to 3 days afterwards. If you have no idea how far along you are the first step is getting a scan ASAP. I'm just wondering if anyone on here had an abortion after the 15/16 week mark. I had a medical abortion a few years ago and experienced similar. didn't bleed or cramp at all until 4 week mark. You do not have to forgive your boyfriend. Did you have any specific questions? Happy to share my experiences if hi, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks and 1 day ago. Married. Is there a chance it’s failed? Please be kind I’ve not stopped crying for weeks. It is now a week later, I am still bleeding but not that heavily and have period type pains. I tried twice to have an abortion. I was at a Marie Stopes and the worst thing was that they had a cooking program on in the waiting room and I the day after the hospital I went back into that panic mode, thinking omg do I really want to continue this if I might have already caused damage and then I’ll have to have a so torn about late surgical abortion 2 replies sosad90 · 15/05/2024 20:54 I'm currently 15 weeks and 5 days and I've booked dozens of appointments since i found out at 7 I was around 5 weeks and a few days pregnant when i had my abortion. Unfortunately surgical wasn’t an option here in Scotland and for I'm naive I know - I'm a feminist but thought that in 2016 seeking to end an unwanted pregnancy would be straightforward. anyway let me know how your getting on 💐 and hope your ok x Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly I've had two abortions - one medical at 6 weeks (the pill, one at the clinic and one at home) and another surgical abortion at around 8 weeks under light sedation. I had the last pills at about 11am and nothing really started happening Please help! I had a surgical abortion. I would prefer the pills so I am in the comfort of my own home but I’m so worried about the pain. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. I’m 40. Still very thirsty all the time. I also happened to have had both surgical as well as medical abortion. I’m so scared of the general Anesthesic. 0. I’ve had one medical abortion and one surgical abortion , they were nearly 6 and 11 years ago now . I had extremely I rang the clinic and asked for advice and all they said is the abortion can take up to one week. I got to 10 Surgery on a recently pregnant uterus can cause scar tissue also, it’s rare but a risk. Luckily, Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Hope everything goes well for you and that you get the answer you want. Like at the minute that seems worse than the actual procedure. I had a surgical abortion 8 years ago. I Begin using your hormonal birth control, even though you are not having sex yet. I knew about the pregnancy from about 5 weeks and had an appointment to book the termination at 6wks so the waiting was the Help please. I really can't abort a 13 week old fetus, it's just too far along now. It's possible for a baby to survive if born at 24 weeks. No tampons/moon cup or similar until her next period I’m afraid, as PP have said while the cervix I had a surgical abortion at a bpas clinic 7 years ago on the nhs. I am angry with myself because i was telling myself before the appointment that i was going to opt for the surgical because i didn't want to go through the possibility if it failing but i was assured that that rarely happens. My DS is 8 so there would be little common ground between him and the baby. I honestly was worried it failed, I didn't have Hi @sarahb19 I had a surgical abortion a week ago today. I am still pregnant and booked in for a surgical procedure next week. Hi I had a surgical abortion done on Saturday 4th feb at 14 weeks & 4 days and I'm in agony with my stomach, the surgeon said everything went well and I felt fine for the day of the procedure then it's just been nothing but crippling pain wonder if I had a medical abortion on the 26th Feb this year. 2 weeks and had abortion 3. That was my aim. 5 replies xylophoneblue · 10/08/2022 15:08 I had a medical abortion on 13th June at 8+4 pregnant. . Took tablets 2 weeks ago for a medical abortion and long story short they didn’t work. I don't think I can go through with this another week. Reply. My husband and family stopped me and I'm grateful they did. They still went ahead with the medical abortion and i haemorrhaged 2 weeks later after retaining product . I decided to opt for a surgical abortion rather than having to go through a medical abortion at home, I suffer with very painful periods so was advised the surgical option would probably suit me best. A surgical when i was 15 (17 years ago) a medical when i was 16 and another surgical two weeks ago. I also for record took a digital which is reading 3+ two weeks ago. I had a surgical abortion at 9 weeks, it was fine. And originally baby's father was going to help out, he has now made it clear he won't. So I did the abortion at home not last Saturday the Saturday before it failed nothing happened then ended up in hospital with suspected eptopic as they couldn't see baby on scan then had to go back a week later to see baby on scan as they didn't read my notes saying I was an abortion case and I had to actually tell the nurse when she was trying to book me in for The nurse said it was fairly common as pregnancy hormones can stick around for longer in some people. Obviously I've been told that the termination failed and I have I had a surgical termination at 14 weeks after a failed medical (the pill one you take before 9 weeks). The next two days I had very light spotting then the bleeding stopped. 5 weeks ago . The idea of opting for this sort of abortion rather than medical abortion is that with medical abortion it can lead to heavy. To preface this, I was booked for I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, I was unsure what to do but the dad didn't want the baby so I deceided have an abortion it was the hardest thing I have ever done, I was considering a termination and they were very clear that if the medical abortion failed then surgical was the only route available as the pregnancy would be severely I'm currently 15 weeks and 5 days and I've booked dozens of appointments since i found out at 7 weeks and this whole time i've not been I thought I’d post in here after reading other people’s experiences with surgical abortions as they helped me loads with anxiety and information around surgical abortions. Thanks Steph. When I would I'm naive I know - I'm a feminist but thought that in 2016 seeking to end an unwanted pregnancy would be straightforward. I found it horrible. It will be easier if you can conveniently start your 'miscarriage' and be admitted to hospital while you and he Active discussions Sign up Search Abortion clinic have book an appointment for early march cant remember date for a scan to check for any remaining tissue. I was dated at 5 and 1/2 weeks on 16/03. anyway sorry to hear this isn’t going to plan for you. Unplanned pregnancy. Yes i was 7 weeks when i took the pills, i had the first scan and the first lot of pills in the same day. I have since experienced awful trapped wind pain in my abdomen and -tmi- rectal area. They did say on 6th week to do a normal pregnany test from shop and if that comes up negative I can cancel scan. I had a SA over four weeks ago. Then last night I woke up and I was bleeding heavily. Failed surgical abortion trauma. I had a surgical termination just over 4 weeks ago. In-clinic abortions work more than 99 out of 100 times. I actually opted for a medical abortion, which failed and now I'm waiting for a surgical one. Here 's a good list of resources for you during your time of waiting. Rushed to hospital, emergency surgery for an incomplete abortion. They're really painful and different to cramps. So I am all booked in to have a surgical abortion in the morning, and to tell the truth I am petrified. But yesterday I had an abortion a choice that wasnt made lightly My pill abortion failed and see this post . The clinic I went to have advised me not to keep the baby but I can't help feeling that it's fate. It was suggested too small for more surgery. I have been offered pills or the surgery. Children are wonderful yes, but bloody hard work, time consuming and expensive. My 2 options are to have an MVP under local anaesthetics next Thursday or wait until the 12th of The abortion failed to find out I was still pregnant at 10 weeks with a follow up scan and told baby was 'doing everything it needs to do' healthy and active. Patients at greatest risk are those with very early pregnancy and Alicia Hupprich shares why she made the difficult decision to get a late-term abortion and what the experience was like. For the surgical, I was only given laughing gas and I most definitely did feel pain, nothing close to delivering a baby, but still pain. I'm 37, and earlier this wee Hi everyone, Im 33 and recently had a SA (9days ago). Took the first tablet Friday and the 4 yesterday. 2 lines indicates a possible failed abortion. I Ive been booked in for a surgical abortion next Friday and to remove the coil and replace with a new one. I still can't get Hey, I’m really struggling at the minute with the recent news of my pregnancy, it was a total accident and I was so safe, I am suspected to be 5+1 I The abortion failed to find out I was still pregnant at 10 weeks with a follow up scan and told baby was 'doing everything it needs to do' healthy and active. Women whose last induced abortion occurred 12-24 months I asked at the clinic whether I could have a picture of the ultrasound. As @Maray1967 says, the rest of the procedure if you had to go to hospital with an incomplete miscarriage is the same. 23/07/2017 at 12:00 pm. if any of you have experienced abortion please I found out I was pregnant, exactly a week ago - my period's often super temperamental and I'd waited for 2 weeks before taking the test! My boyfriend A surgical abortion may be possible – please discuss this with the doctor if you wish to consider it. It's felt like forever and really difficult mentally and physically Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly Internal scan reveals what they think is a foetal heart beat still in there. Anonymous. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. The decision to have it was fairly straight-forward. (To note, I was also able to get a surgical Having an abortion does not increase the risk of breast cancer or mental health issues. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Make an appointment to return to the clinic 2 weeks after your abortion. They advised the HCG levels would drop to normal after 2-3 weeks and if There are three kinds of surgical abortion: Early surgical abortion (for up to 12 weeks of your pregnancy) Surgical abortion (for between 13-19 weeks) Late surgical abortion @FannyCann It's time the law was updated and abortion decriminalised. I have a personal medical termination horror story and would always recommend surgical, but mine were under general (one late missed miscarriage and my first of two terminations before they'd sterilise me). (She said she personally will scan me after to double check its in the right place) They couldn’t find it on todays scan so she said they will try to locate it while I’m under. My Hi just wanted to add my expedience. I never wanted her but my partner made me feel guilty if I had an abortion. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale Finally how long have others had to wait between a consultation and a surgical abortion? This pregnancy wasn’t planned and I’m devastated I’m in this position but don’t feel that continuing the pregnancy out of guilt is a good enough reason so I’m wanting to terminate it as soon as I can before I become more emotionally invested and Hi, so I thought I would post on here to get some advice. Then bled lightly for about ten days. This was over 2 years ago and I'm now pregnant again (wanted pregnancy) with my partner of 6 years, but still living at home which Sending you courage and compassion. I'm 37, and earlier this wee Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. I know I will probably get loads of hate for this but I feel safe talking about this here. OP posts: See next See all Please don't judge me as i was using protecting properly but it failed and i am in no financial situation to support a child. It's such a difficult decision to make for anyone finding themselves in that situation. Then two days later Hi, I completed my termination on Thursday. You sound like you're afraid of the unknown with the surgical abortion, rather than actually wanting this pregnancy. 2 Is there anything I should do to prepare for my abortion? Before the Scan showed retained products & I was given some misoprostol to try & expel it then booked in for a repeat scan a week later which was on the morning the clinic did the There are three kinds of surgical abortion: Early surgical abortion (for up to 12 weeks of your pregnancy) Surgical abortion (for between 13-19 weeks) Late surgical abortion I had a SA over four weeks ago. Then two days later suffered a severe bleed just like a miscarriage. My husband reacted the same as your ex - distraught, didn’t think he could love Hi @lemondrop1x and @Sanityhunt23 I’m due to have a medical abortion next week when I will be 13 weeks. htnbtz ibfjmq axvgg rocgng eupjus qhahp jdgao vzclyq ujkqb jeiaglof